Betrayed Spouses and Partners
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What do you do when it happens to you?
“When I first discovered my husband was acting out sexually in our relationship with online porn, texting and dating with other women, I felt deviated, I felt so isolated like I had no one anymore that I could turn to. I felt so alone, so angry, so betrayed. I felt something inside me die at that time. I am so thankful that I reached out for counseling and support. The tools I have learned with you Mitchel has helped me so much to heal and find my courage and strength to shine on again, I am on my way to becoming a better mother, sister, and partner. I am now focused on my own healing and I am employing self-care and love for myself all the time. – Thank you Mitchel”
Dealing with Spousal Betrayal
Discovering your significant other has a secret sexual life is a traumatic event. As a result, many betrayed partners and spouses deal with traumatic stress symptoms such as physical pain, increased anxiety, insomnia, depression, poor self-image, overeating, substance abuse, and sexual withdrawal. If you can relate to any of this, you are not alone and there is help on the other side of sexual betrayal.
For many people the process of going through the pain and grief will express itself in the following manner:
Denial
It will be fine, maybe I am crazy or making too much out of this.
Anger
Why me, why us? How can he/she keep doing this to me!
Bargaining
I will do anything if they would only change and stop lying.
Depression
I feel so betrayed, I don’t know where to turn. I have no hope.
Acceptance
This is really happening, I am not crazy, and it is time for me to get help and healing.
Getting Help With Betrayal Through Effective Counseling
Mitchel Rosenholtz, MSW, is very experienced at helping both the sexually addicted clients and the betrayed partner. Let me help you overcome, grow and learn during this very difficult and challenging time.
My practice specializes in:
Sexual and relational integrity
Pain of betrayal
Infidelity
Sexual/Porn addiction
Recovering and Moving Forward after Spousal Betrayal
Change is not an easy process, change is often very frightening, and going through pain is never fun or easy, but it is always necessary for growth, healing and self-understanding.
If you are ready to move forward, I will help you step out of the cycle of pain and trauma. I will guide you in restoring your heart and your life, you will learn to understand and process your thoughts, feelings and emotions. You will learn to recreate the life and person you want to become.
If you are dealing with a spouse or partner’s sexual betrayal and would like to start focusing on getting your life back on track and feeling whole again, I am
here to support your healing.
If you have any questions, please feel free to call 954-951-3077
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